These reflections on self-control are based on 2 Timothy 3.
‘People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God’ (vv2–3)
We are now returning to the weekly series we were doing before Christmas. Paul doesn’t pull any punches here in 2 Timothy. Describing what people will be like in the ‘end times’ (between Jesus’ resurrection and second coming), a lot of it rings true for today’s culture. The view of so many is that it is fine to seek after pleasure, status and money. However, here Paul slates such self-gratifying behaviour.
Interestingly, a lack of self-control is up there in his description. The Old Testament also talks about those who lack self-control: ‘Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control’ (Proverbs 25:28).
Sadly this seems to describe what has happened this week in America. It has been heartbreaking to watch. But, while we may have looked on aghast, in our hearts we knew it was the inevitable result of what has been happening over the course of many years.
And the verse displayed above seems to describe many politicians and other leaders. It is certainly sobering to think of the state of our world today – but also of our own hearts.
In verses 8–9 Paul talks about the magicians who counterfeited Moses’ miracles (see Exodus. 7). He was saying that, just like them, the false teachers of the day would be exposed for who they truly were. The same is true for anyone – while individuals may be able to hide their shortcomings from others for a while, God sees and knows who they really are. Actually I take comfort from that today, as we read the promise that ‘their folly will be clear to everyone’ (v9). Lord may it be so!
OUR TRUE SELVES REVEALED
Of course, that same truth applies to us too. When we are put into stressful situations that ‘squeeze’ us, what is revealed? Have we learned to cultivate the kind of qualities Paul did throughout the pressures of his life (see vv10–11)? Or do we lose control in the face of difficulties?
I think we have probably all had times during the past year when we have done and said things that have surprised even ourselves. When we are under extended periods of stress, and the unexpected happens over and over, we are bound to be affected. But it is also helpful to recognise and bring those less than godly responses before God, in repentance and humility, asking him to mould and shape us.
GOD’S WORD IS ALL-SUFFICIENT
I love Paul’s reminder that ‘All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness’ (v16). In an age when the credibility of the Bible is constantly being questioned, it is refreshing to be reminded that it contains everything we need. That remains true even in the midst of what is happening in the world today. Yes it is a challenge, but we can remain steadfast, and exercise self-control, even in the midst of pressure and pain.
Prayer: Lord I am humbled by Paul’s words. I want to be known as someone who is self-controlled rather than one who lacks it. Help me to develop this quality. Amen.